The Second Piano
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Invitation-only suppers for Perth founders & operators

In a trust recession, the room is the proof.

People now see something polished online and assume a machine made it. John Lee calls this a trust recession. A handshake across a dinner table can't be generated. The Second Piano seats fourteen carefully chosen founders and operators at one table, arranged so that what each person brings sits beside what someone else needs.

14seats
1table, one evening
1short talk
1action each, before you leave

By invitation only

The Second Piano

requests your company at a table of fourteen
founders & operators

An evening without pitches, lanyards or slides.

Where
A private dining room, Perth
When
The first supper, date set with its guests
Dress
As you are
Bring
One thing you can offer, one thing you need
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A concept invitation. No suppers have been held yet.

Why in person

Trust is in recession. People still believe a room.

John Lee's example: a team member complimented him on how well his AI had made one of his photos. It wasn't AI. It was really him. When even a real photo gets mistaken for a generated one, you have to give people a reason to believe you, and being there in real life is one of the strongest reasons left.

Create an event in person for your ICP, and your business will go up.
John Lee, Social Media & AI Business Bootcamp, Perth

John Lee's example

A summit built for one exact ICP

He told the story of a client in his partner programme, in fund management, that he said had been stuck at about 650 million for around 15 years. Within about a year of this work, he said, they reached a billion.

  1. They decided their ICP was people who understood financial investment, and created an event for exactly them: the Capital Wealth Summit.

  2. Family offices, fund managers, financial planners, real estate investors and venture capital came.

  3. A war had broken out in the region around April. Everyone said no one would show up, and the flights were almost empty. John had committed to speak, flew in, and it was a full house.

  4. From that room, the client gained access to family offices and government funds and could deploy capital.

John Lee's example

One phone call over breakfast

Over breakfast, his business partner mentioned to another speaker that one of their clients in Dubai had just raised about a billion dollars. John made a phone call and connected the two on the spot. They recorded a podcast the next day, and he said they are now investing in a longevity company together.

He calls these green room deals: deals that happen backstage and in casual conversation, away from the boardroom. He also reminded the room that you are only about six contacts away from anyone.

One relationship, one deal, can change the trajectory of your business.John Lee

I don't collect money, I collect people.An affiliate friend of John Lee's, as he quoted them

Invite for one exact ICP

The summit worked because it was built for one kind of person. Every Second Piano table is drawn for one kind of guest: Perth founders and operators with something real to give.

Give the green room its own hour

The standing hour before dinner is scheduled, hosted and planned. The host arrives knowing which three introductions to make first.

Make the introduction on the spot

John made the call at breakfast. The host does the same at the table, with a one-line reason the two people should talk.

Who's in the room

Fourteen green liners, chosen on purpose.

Before anyone is invited, the guest is defined with John Lee's PAID method: the four things you must understand about a person before you can help them. These are the working answers for The Second Piano's guest.

John Lee's midnight panic question

If your client called you tomorrow in a panic, what would they be panicking about?

He calls the answer your true ICP. The Second Piano asks it of every guest before the evening, and their answer becomes the Looking for line on their place card. The seating plan then puts that need beside someone who brings it.

Example panics, and what we seat for

  • This deal slips and I can't make payroll.Capital
  • Our biggest client just went quiet.Enterprise intros
  • I need a senior hire by Monday.Hiring
  • We're doing everything by hand and drowning.AI & automation

Red liner

“Come on, be realistic.”

You tell them what you want to do and they think you're crazy.

Green liner

“I don't know about that, but I think you can do it. Give it a shot.”

Every guest at a Second Piano table is a green liner. That is the first test, before role or revenue.

Red liners and green liners are John Lee's terms. He said the people you spend time with shape your results.

The curation guide

  • Test for green first.Tell a candidate your boldest plan. Note the first sentence back. "Be realistic" is a no.
  • Invite for what they give.Every guest names one thing they can offer the table and one thing they need. Title alone gets no one a seat.
  • One crust per pair.John Lee's pizza analogy: partners want the same pizza but different parts of it. Two people competing for the same part never sit side by side.
  • Fourteen chairs, fixed.Big enough for surprise, small enough that the host can introduce everyone by name.
John Lee's example: a friend told him to go through his phone every year and delete contacts: red liner, delete; green liner, keep. He got as far as his mum, a red liner he obviously couldn't delete. John said he isn't recommending the purge, only being careful about who you let in.

Exercise

Curate your contacts

John Lee's three steps. Type the people you spend the most time with, mark each red or green, then choose who you'd put on a Second Piano guest list.

  1. Write down the people you spend the most time with.
  2. Mark each one red or green.
  3. Be deliberate: pick who gets an invitation.

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The Resonance Table

Seat the room so the right strings ring.

John Lee's friend Paul McKenna told him about sympathetic resonance: play a C on one piano and the C strings on the piano beside it start to vibrate. As John Lee put it, when you bring incredible people together, incredible things happen. This planner is how The Second Piano decides who sits beside whom. Each glowing line is a pair whose strings answer each other.

Two pianos side by side. A C is struck on the first; the C strings on the second vibrate without being touched. Piano one: a C is played Piano two: its C strings answer
Example guests
Drag a guest onto another seat, or tap two guests to swap them. strong pair same crust ring: how much that guest resonates

Move without dragging

Choose a seat, then the guest to put there. The two swap.

Brings and looking forEvery guest names what they can offer and what they need. A pair earns a point for each match, in each direction.
Both ways ring louderWhen each person has something the other needs, the pair earns a bonus point. That is a chord.
ReachNeighbours count in full. Across a round table counts half. At the long table, opposite counts 0.8 and diagonal 0.4.
Same crustTwo people in the same field offering the same thing lose three points. They'd compete for the same part of the pizza.

The guest list

Example guests · fictional, roles only

Introductions

What the host says, pair by pair.

For every strong pair in the current seating, one warm line the host can say out loud in the green room hour. Move people around and run it again.

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    The evening

    Three and a half hours, every minute with a job.

    The run sheet for a Second Piano supper. Times are a working template for a weeknight; the order is what matters.

    1. 6:30 pm

      Arrivals

      The door

      The host greets each guest by name. Every place card carries three lines: their name, one thing they bring and one thing they're looking for.

    2. 6:40 pm

      Standing · 50 minutes

      The green room hour

      No seats yet. The host works from the Introductions list and makes the three strongest introductions first, out loud, with the reason. This is where John Lee's green room deals happen.

    3. 7:30 pm

      Seated · first course

      The panic round

      Guests sit where the Resonance Table put them. One prompt, answered around the table.

      If your best client rang you at midnight tomorrow, what would they be panicking about?

    4. 8:00 pm

      One talk · 12 minutes

      The talk, in ADUCATE order

      One speaker, no slides, following John Lee's seven steps in order. Example talk:

      1. AAttention"Tonight I'll show you how to meet the one person who changes your year, even if you hate networking."
      2. DDifficultyName the biggest problem: everyone is busy, every inbox is full, and polished messages get dismissed as machine-made.
      3. UUnderstanding"I understand how you feel, because walking into a room of strangers is uncomfortable for nearly everyone."
      4. CCredibilityWhy listen: the speaker's real track record, stated plainly. Nothing borrowed, nothing inflated.
      5. AAuthorityThree action steps: know your offer in one line; ask people what they'd panic about; make one introduction before dessert.
      6. TTestimonialsAt the first supper there are none to borrow. Ask two guests ahead of time to share, briefly, one relationship that changed their business.
      7. EExitOne specific action: before you leave, put your one next step in your calendar.
    5. 8:15 pm

      Main course

      Six degrees round

      John Lee said you are only about six contacts away from anyone. Each guest names one person they need to meet this year; the table works out who is closest.

      Who is one person you need to meet this year? Say their role out loud.

    6. 9:00 pm

      Dessert

      The idea round

      "An idea can't grow unless it's shared," as John Lee told a room that wanted to keep an idea secret. One rule for replies: answer like a green liner.

      What idea have you been keeping to yourself?

    7. 9:35 pm

      The close

      One action, in the calendar

      John Lee's close from the bootcamp: write down your biggest aha moment, then the one action you'll take straight after. Share both with the person beside you, then put the action in your calendar with a date and time before you stand up. Things that get scheduled get done.

    8. 9:50 pm

      Door

      Goodnight, by name

      The host thanks each guest and notes who met whom. The follow-up starts tonight.

    Conversation prompts

    Printed as tent cards and placed down the table, one per course. Each comes from an idea John Lee taught.

    First courseIf your best client rang you at midnight, what would they be panicking about?The midnight panic question
    First courseWhat could you give someone at this table tonight, for free?Win-win-win starts with your side of it
    MainWhich part of your market do you leave on the plate?The pizza analogy: someone here may want your crust
    MainWhat would a win for you, a win for the person beside you and a win for their customer look like?The win-win-win test
    MainWho is one person you need to meet this year?Six degrees of separation
    DessertWho was the green liner who told you to give it a shot?Red liners and green liners
    DessertWhat idea have you been keeping to yourself?"An idea can't grow unless it's shared"
    CloseWhat will you do because of tonight, and when is it in your calendar?Commit to one action

    The invitation engine

    Every invitation written for one person.

    A personal letter in John Lee's ADUCATE order: Attention, Difficulty, Understanding, Credibility, Authority, Testimonials, Exit. Tell it who the guest is and why they belong at the table.

    One or two sentences. This is the heart of the letter.

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    The Second PianoExample letter

    After the evening

    The fortune is in the follow-up.

    John Lee said most of the money comes from following up, and that a CRM is how nothing gets forgotten. Every Second Piano guest, introduction and promised action goes into one place, then gets three touchpoints.

    24 hThe next morning

    • A personal note to every guest. Thank them by name and restate the introduction made for them.
    • Remind them of the one action they wrote down, and the time they put it in their calendar.
    • Log every intro and action in the CRM before lunch.

    7 daysOne week on

    • Check the introductions landed. If two people haven't met, make it easy: suggest a time, a place and a reason.
    • Send each guest one useful thing from their conversation: a name, a link, a number.

    30 daysA month on

    • Ask one question: did you do the thing you wrote down?
    • Share wins back with the table, only with permission.
    • Ask each guest to nominate one green liner for the next supper. John Lee said referrals are how you scale: happy customers become ambassadors.

    Strategic Alliance Partners

    Partners who want the other half of the pizza.

    John Lee's example: at a favourite pizza place, someone close to him eats the pizza and leaves the crust, and he eats the crust. You both want the same thing without competing for the same part. A Strategic Alliance Partner has the audience you want but isn't your competitor. These are the partner types the supper is built to attract.

    The venue

    A private dining room or restaurant

    They keep the booking and the kitchen. We keep the conversations.

    Win for guests
    A great room, no conference lanyards.
    Win for the venue
    A full room on a quiet weeknight and fourteen people who book client dinners.
    Win for the host
    A lower cost per head and a room that starts to feel like ours.

    The producer

    A local winery, distillery or coffee roaster

    They want to be tasted by people who buy for teams and clients. We want something good and local in the glass.

    Win for guests
    Something worth talking about, from down the road.
    Win for the producer
    Decision makers tasting the product, and a line on the menu card.
    Win for the host
    Drinks covered or discounted.

    The professional firm

    A commercial law firm, accountant or bank partnerships team

    They want to meet founders at the moment they need advice, without cold calls. We want an expert at the table who doesn't pitch.

    Win for guests
    A real expert to ask, over dinner, for free.
    Win for the firm
    One seat at the table and relationships that start over a meal.
    Win for the host
    A partner contribution that keeps the ticket price down.

    House rules for partners. A seat, a mention on the menu card and a thank-you at the close. No sales pitch at the table. A guest's details are shared only with that guest's permission. A deal is a yes only when guests, partner and host all win, which is John Lee's win-win-win test.

    Event economics

    Small numbers, stated plainly.

    A planning model for one supper. Every figure here is an assumption to edit, and none has been quoted by a venue or partner.

    One evening

    Tickets and partner contributions in, venue and extras out.

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    From shortlist to a full table

    John Lee's webinar maths, adapted to personal invitations.

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    John Lee's example, for comparison. For a gym owner's database he presented these planning numbers for one webinar: list, times open rate, half register, half attend, then conversion times price.

    180,000 × 20% open = 36,000 → half register = 18,000 → half attend ≈ 9,000 → 25% buy = 2,250 × $300 a month ≈ $675,000 a month

    The supper is a relationship engine first. The aim of the model is that the evening pays for itself, so the host can keep running it. Any deals that come from the room belong to the guests.